We offer a full range of mental health services with a special emphasis on the challenges across the lifespan of attachment and trauma.
How We Help Our Clients
Relationships are the heartbeats of our lives. When there are problems relating to others in the family and socially it can impact every area of an individual’s life. For these unique issues, there are several different types of therapy in which our therapists have specialized training, to help each client’s unique needs.
Through a cooperative process with the therapist, individuals are able to become more self-aware. Through the course of their development, our highly trained therapists provide the support and caring necessary to navigate this journey. When working with children, our therapists allow them to “work through” their challenges through the play itself or provide targeted intervention through specific activities by combining play with other types of therapy. Utilizing a trust-based approach, we assist young people to identify the causes of their distress. Our specially trained therapists help them to acquire the skills necessary to encourage lasting change and a deeper self-understanding. Our therapists feel privileged and grateful for the opportunity to work with our clients; as they work hard to move forward with a clearer understanding of themselves and the important relationships in their lives.
About Us
As a mental health clinic and neuroscience training center, our therapists provide a range of experience and levels of training. All therapists are trained in leading edge trauma focused evidence-based therapy modalities that utilize the healing properties of the brain. We believe in the power of healing relationships and families.
Our Mission
Our mission is to promote the growth and healthy functioning of individuals and families through professional guidance. We offer a full range of mental health services, with a special emphasis on services that are effective for attachment and trauma challenges across the lifespan.
Meet Our Staff
Services
There are many types of therapy. At our center we focus on those that utilize the brain’s ability to heal itself. We are eclectic in our approach interweaving various evidence-based modalities to provide the unique approach each individual needs to heal. We allow each person to move through the healing process at their own pace. Play can serve as a catalyst for meaningful dialogue between the child and therapist. In our work with children, play allows them to process their trauma especially when combined with neuroscience modalities, including EMDR, Brainspotting, Theraplay® and Neurofeedback.
These are the therapies we offer for children: (click on the name of the therapy to learn more about it)
The foundation of therapy is the relationship with a trusted, specially trained therapist who can help young people deal with the causes of distress and help them acquire the skills to cope more adaptively in the future. The goal is to create a situation in which adolescents can express themselves fully in order to develop self-understanding and new, lasting changes in emotional states and behavior. Therapy with children and adolescents is a collaborative endeavor with parents or caregivers.
These are the therapies we offer for adolescents: (click on the name of the therapy to learn more about it)
Individual therapy is a collaborative process through which individuals work one-on-one with a trained therapist in a safe, caring, and confidential environment to explore their feelings, beliefs, or behaviors, identify aspects of their lives that they would like to change, better understand themselves and others, set personal goals, and work toward desired change. The overall goal of therapy is to increase one’s sense of well-being.
These are the therapies we offer for adults: (click on the name of the therapy to learn more about it)
2022 Fall Groups Starting in September
- Making Sense of Your Worth for Adult Females
- Making Sense of Your Worth for Teen Males
- Parenting for Positive Self-Worth
- Trust Based Relational Interventions - Parenting After Adoption
This is a Virtual Women’s Group.
Dates: March 24th – May19th.
A day off-April 7th.
When: Every Friday from 11:00am-1:00pm
Self-Worth is the foundation of who we are as human beings and in today’s world is highly sought after. It plays a role in every decision we make and in every relationship we have. This eight-week program is designed for anybody who desires the freedom that comes with living in positive self-worth and secure attachment. The Making Sense of Your Worth Curriculum follows a step-by-step process in a group setting of gaining positive self-worth. Testimonial: “This class has profoundly influenced my life.”
TUESDAYS 4 – 5:30 PM
9/30/33 – 11/8/22
Online options
Giving and receiving help from others can allow you to heal in a unique way. It allows members of the group to recognize others also struggle with similar experiences and emotions. When someone feels heard and seen the brain releases dopamine the “feel good” chemical into the body. This is a place where you can learn to articulate your own feelings and needs. Groups can build your confidence and empower you to make positive changes in your life.
WEDNESDAYS 10 am to 12 pm ONLINE
9/28/2022 – 11/16/2022
This 8-week virtual group focuses on learning a variety of parenting strategies designed to help adults parent their children in a way that provides a sense of trust and positive core beliefs. We provide games and engaging ways to learn respect, self-control, and an opportunity to practice parenting scripts to enhance compliance. We explore the “why” behind behaviors for children and how to prevent them. In addition, the parenting strategies are designed to help parents establish positive self-worth in their children. The group is a two-hour ONLINE group.
THURSDAYS 10:30 am – 12 pm ONLINE
Groups
Do you ever feel like there must be something wrong with you? Do you struggle in many different types of relationships in your life? Does your past seem to interfere in many areas of your present life? The step-by-step process of “Making Sense of Your Worth” will allow you to understand why your past can still impact your daily life. Our self-worth influences every relationship we have in our life. The program will provide an awareness of how you can become empowered and replace your past experiences with the positive self-worth that all humans deserve.
Self-Worth is the foundation of who we are as human beings and in today’s world is highly sought after. It plays a role in every decision we make and in every relationship we have. This eight-week program is designed for anybody who desires the freedom that comes with living in positive self-worth and secure attachment. The Making Sense of Your Worth Curriculum follows a step-by-step process of gaining positive self-worth. It was created by Cindy R. Lee, LCSW in partnership with HALO Project International and participants in the program show an increase in positive self-worth upon completion.
Giving and receiving help from others can allow you to heal in a unique way. It allows members of the group to recognize others also struggle with similar experiences and emotions. When someone feels heard and seen the brain releases dopamine the “feel good” chemical into the body. This is a place where you can learn to articulate your own feelings and needs. Groups can build your confidence and empower you to make positive changes in your life.
Currently our group is limited to adult females to provide a safe and supportive environment to explore relationships and their impact on our choices in life. Navigating relational trauma and the influence of our past on our daily life is explored in various modalities. Understanding the need for others to have power and control over your life is essential to making positive changes for a successful future.
What is the difference between self-worth and self-esteem?
Self-esteem is related to someone’s performance at a skill or task. Self-worth is the recognition that all humans deserve to be seen, heard, and recognized. Humans are born seeking connections with other humans. The early care by primary caregivers can allow an infant to build trust and connection toward their caregivers, if the caregivers have a positive self-worth themselves. If the caregivers do not have a secure attachment or positive core beliefs, they are not able to provide to their children what they do not have themselves.
How many weeks is the group?
The group is currently scheduled for two hours a week for 8 weeks.
What if I must be absent for a session one week?
If it is necessary, a group member may be absent for one week of the group. We do require they make up that week with the group facilitator assistant. The information is on a continuum and will not be as effective if all weeks are not completed in order. If a member must be absent for two weeks, there will need to be a discussion regarding whether the current time is appropriate to continue in the group. This is due to the importance of group dynamics and cohesion for the most successful experience for all group members.
Testimonials of groups members:
“My participation in this program changed my life. I had no idea how and why I felt so bag all the time or why I was so hard on myself. I figured it out in this class and was able to let go of all lies I have carried for so long. It is tough work but so worth it.”
“This curriculum was able to fil the gaps of many places in my own journey.”
“My therapist recommended this group to me, and I am grateful I participated in it. This program is a blessing.”
“I see myself in a completely different way now and it changed my perspective of how others make me feel about myself.”
“The red flags of power and control games some people play were the biggest lesson for me. I know what to look for now for a healthy relationship.”
“I wish I had known this a long time ago; it would have changed so many bad decisions I made in my life. My future will be very different.”
From a teen parent of a teen who participated in the teen version:
“What kind of therapy are you doing in that group? My teen is a different kid. She is much happier now.”
Gottman Method Couples Therapy
The Gottman Method is an approach to couples therapy that includes a thorough assessment of the couple’s relationship and integrates research-based interventions based on the Sound Relationship House Theory. The goals of Gottman Method Couples Therapy are to disarm conflicting verbal communication; increase intimacy, respect, and affection; remove barriers that create a feeling of stagnancy; and create a heightened sense of empathy and understanding within the context of the relationship.
Interventions are designed to help couples strengthen their relationships in three primary areas: friendship, conflict management, and creation of shared meaning. Couples learn to replace negative conflict patterns with positive interactions and to repair past hurts. Interventions designed to increase closeness and intimacy are used to improve friendship, deepen emotional connection, and create changes which enhances the couples shared goals. Relapse prevention is also addressed.
The Gottman Method is designed to support couples across all economic, racial, sexual orientation, and cultural sectors. Outcome research has shown Gottman Method Couples Therapy to be effective for treating same-sex relationships.
What are some of the relationship issues that may be addressed in therapy?
+ Frequent conflict and arguments
+ Poor communication
+ Emotionally distanced couples on the verge of separation
+ Specific problems such as sexual difficulties, infidelity, money, and parenting
Can the Gottman Method help couples with “normal” levels of conflict?
Yes, even couples with “normal” levels of conflict may benefit from the Gottman Method Couples Therapy. Gottman-trained therapists aim to help couples build stronger relationships overall and healthier ways to cope with issues as they arise in the future.
What is the biggest predictor of divorce?
According to Dr. John Gottman, the Gottman Method’s proponent, the biggest predictor of divorce is contempt. When partners show contempt in the relationship, they are dismissing the other as unimportant. It is often through sarcasm, criticism, and negative judgment.
You do not feel valued and welcomed to express your thoughts or share your dreams and ideas. Thus, the relationship loses its “give and take” concept, leading to conflicts after conflicts.
“What is Gottman Method Couples Therapy?”. The Gottman Research Institute. Retrieved 10 September 2021.
Play Therapy
Play is a fun, enjoyable activity that elevates our spirits and brightens our outlook on life. It expands self-expression, self- knowledge, self-actualization and self-efficacy. Play relieves feelings of stress and boredom, connects us to people in a positive way, stimulates creative thinking and exploration, regulates our emotions, and boosts our ego (Landreth, 2002). In addition, play allows us to practice skills and roles needed for survival.
Children are referred for play therapy to resolve their problems (Carmichael; 2006; Schaefer, 1993). Often, children have used up their own problem solving tools, and they misbehave, may act out at home, with friends, and at school (Landreth, 2002). Play therapy allows trained mental health practitioners who specialize in play therapy, to assess and understand children’s play. Further, play therapy is utilized to help children cope with difficult emotions and find solutions to problems.
1. What should I tell my child about play therapy?
2. How will I be informed about my child’s progress?
3. What should I say to my child after a session?
4. What should my child wear to play therapy?
Andrew’s Day: Video
Play is a child’s first language. When a child plays they express thoughts and feelings that would otherwise remain hidden. That’s why play therapy is such a powerful tool to address a child’s behavioral and emotional challenges.
Why Choose a Registered Play Therapist?
There is another credential that play therapists in the United States can achieve called the Registered Play Therapist (RPT). This credential is provided through the Association for Play Therapy. It requires the play therapist to have at least a master’s degree and license in a mental health field, to complete a substantial amount of play therapy training, to have extensive clinical experience, and to have received play therapy supervision.
Sandtray Therapy
1. How long has Sandtray Therapy been used for children?
2. Why is it different from other types of Play Therapy?
3. Is Sandtray Therapy used in combination with other therapy types?
4. What is the purpose of the miniature figures used in sand tray therapy?
Sandtray Therapy Video
While play is a fun activity that can help a child learn, it can also be used to help children who have experienced trauma, learn coping skills. Well take a look at the benefits of sand play therapy. 0 to 5 in 30 Minutes! is a product of Valley Public Television. The program is sponsored by First 5 Fresno County, First 5 Tulare County, and First 5 Madera County.
Theraplay
Theraplay® focuses on four central parent/child connection areas: nurture, structure, engagement, and challenge. Attachment and trust between parent and child are built through activities that encourage a secure bond for the child with the caregiver. Through play children are able to build self-esteem, trust, become more regulated, and connect with others in a meaningful and authentic way. Healing from trauma can be healed with techniques that are used allowing children and their families to reconnect with a safe and secure attachment. Theraplay can be especially beneficial for foster/adopt families.
1. What ages benefit can benefit from Theraplay®?
2. Will parents learn to use Theraplay?
3. How long has Theraplay been used?
4. How does Theraplay help?
http://www.theraplay.org/index.php/about-tti
EMDR: Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing
EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) is a psychotherapy that enables people to heal from the symptoms and emotional distress that are the result of disturbing life experiences. Repeated studies show that by using EMDR people can experience the benefits of psychotherapy that once took years to make a difference.
1. How do children use EMDR?
2. Is additional training necessary to use EMDR with children?
http://www.emdria.org
http://www.emdr.com/frequent-questions/
http://psychcentral.com/lib/frequently-asked-questions-about-emdr/
Attachment Therapy
The first and most important of all relationships are attachment bonds. Initially, these are created through interactions with our primary caregivers, usually parents. First, relationships help define our capacity for attachment and set the tone for all of our future relationships.
Attachments influence the developing brain, which in turn affects future interactions with others, self-esteem, self-control, and the ability to learn and to achieve optimum mental and physical health. Symptoms can include the following:
- Low self esteem
- Needy, clingy or pseudo-independent behavior
- Inability to deal with stress and adversity
- Lack of self-control
- Inability to develop and maintain friendships
- Alienation from and opposition to parents, caregivers, and other authority figures
- Antisocial attitudes and behaviors
- Aggression and violence
- Difficulty with genuine trust, intimacy, and affection
- Negative, hopeless, pessimistic view of self, family and society
- Lack of empathy, compassion and remorse
- Behavioral and academic problems at school
- Speech and language problems
- Incessant chatter and questions
- Difficulty learning
- Anxiety
- Depression
- Apathy
- Susceptibility to chronic illness
- Obsession with food: hordes, gorges, refuses to eat, eats strange things, hides food
- Repetition of the cycle of maltreatment and attachment disorder in their own children when they reach adulthood
- Sensory Processing Disorder
1. Is it possible for a biological child to have attachment challenges?
“Even in utero and after birth, for every moment of every day, our brain is processing the nonstop set of incoming signals from our senses. Sight, sound, touch, smell, taste—all of the raw sensory data that will result in these sensations enter the lower parts of the brain and begin a multistage process of being categorized, compared to previously stored patterns, and ultimately, if necessary, acted upon.”
Pre-genetic disposition may also impact a child’s emotional development and self-regulation ability, children who are genetically wired to be more anxious may possibly interpret facial expressions and body language in a negative manner.
According to Seigel and Hartzell, (2003) a parent’s own unresolved issues from their childhood may impact their ability to effectively respond in parenting, causing them to become frozen in their ability to adapt to their own role of caring for their children in a clear and consistent manner. This has the potential to have a generational effect in parenting. We genuinely believe that parents do the best that they can with what they have been given (through their childhood experiences). If parents do not know how to meet their children’s needs because they did not experience this, they need to be shown.
2. Is it ever too late to heal attachment challenges?
Neuroscience has revealed that brain plasticity is possible throughout life. This provides an opportunity to rewire the brain and the response to relationships.
Awareness is such a powerful tool and parents are generally eager to learn, it can be helpful to be shown by someone who has the knowledge either through professional training, research, or experience.
We can learn to re-wire the brain through pattern-repetitive behavior that will forms new connections (new blueprints in our brain). Parenting psycho-education is vital for helping parents learn to attune to their children’s needs, how to regulate them (mind and body) and how to form healthy attachment relationships that will serve as a resiliency factor throughout the lifespan.
Alvarado, (2008)
“when relationships hurt, we learn not to trust in relationships, whether at work, school or home.” we work with people to help change the blueprints that people carry with them to form new understanding about people and the world around us.”
This is a core belief for our therapists in our center and is the foundation of our work.
3. For Adults: How can I have attachment issues – my parents loved me?
Even if your parents loved you, they may not have been capable of meeting your needs.
As babies, when we reach out and no one reaches back, when we express needs and no one listens, we often give up. Or if our caregiver is present some of the time and neglectful or abusive at others we become confused and keep reaching, keep hoping someone will be there.
In this process, we decide things about ourselves, such as “I must be unlovable” or “something must be wrong with me.” We then begin a lifelong quest to either avoid real intimacy or to find it, but when it shows up, in our desperation, we often unconsciously push it away. This longing and/or dissatisfaction often leads to anxiety, depression, co-dependency, addictions, fear of intimacy, rigidity, and wanting to hurt or be hurt as well as a failure to thrive as adults.
4. For Adults: Is it too late to heal my attachment challenges?
The brain remains flexible throughout life, nonverbal communication retains the capacity to change. Studies in people over age ninety show us images of mature brains that continue to produce new neural pathways at a time when older pathways are dying.
The same experiential and social factors that profoundly shape the brain initially can also be instrumental in repairing the causes and symptoms of stress related disorders.
5. Additional Resources
We use an approach that combines Eye Movement Desensitization Response (EMDR), Integrative Family Attachment Trauma Protocol (IATP), and Trust Based Relationship Intervention (TBRI©). These are evidence based therapy modalities that provide an approach that heals the entire family, providing behavioral changes that allow the child to improve their emotional regulation skills.
The family is guided through a process that involves a series of specific EMDR interventions in addition to parenting strategies to strengthen and build the attachment in the relationships. The parenting strategies are at the foundation of our work, since traditional behavior methods are not a successful approach for children with attachment/trauma challenges.
For Adults:
Our evidence-based therapy utilizing Eye Movement Desensitization (EMDR) and Attachment based therapy can help you change the effects of an “adult attachment disorder” with our nurturing processes and experiences within a safe and caring environment.
Here we gently and safely guide you to discover your early experiences, beliefs, and coping strategies that keep you from having the love you want or keeping the love you find.
EMDR and attachment based therapy goes a lot deeper than talk therapy. The goal is to free a person from the unresolved emotions and triggers so that he or she becomes freer to live in the present.
Using EMDR to process traumatic events allows you to work through the emotions and sensory memories stored with them. In re-examining them, you are able to feel those feelings now, work through them now and defuse them once and for all. The released emotional pain is no longer repressed and allowed to fester.
You will discover the roots of current relationship issues and heal them at the source, giving you an experience of your authentic self. You will begin to experience yourself as lovable, capable, and worthy and will learn strategies to continue to build your newfound feelings of safety and potential as well as the skills to build healthy relationships and be more successful in every area of your life.
Trauma Therapy
Traumatization is stress frozen in place –locked into a pattern of neurological distress that doesn’t go away by returning to a state of equilibrium. Traumatization promotes ongoing disability that can take many mental, social, emotional and physical forms.
Much like stress, trauma is experienced uniquely by each person. Traumatized children have impaired wiring in the brain’s limbic system and altered levels of stress hormones, resulting in anxiety, depression, and self-regulation problems. Effective treatment and parenting rewires the limbic system and reduces the biochemistry of stress.
The ability to recognize emotional trauma has changed radically over the course of history. Until recently psychological trauma was noted only in men after catastrophic wars. The women’s movement in the sixties broadened the definition of emotional trauma to include physical and sexual abuse of women and children.
Now, the impact of psychological trauma has extended to experiences that include:
- Natural disasters, such as earthquakes, fires, floods, hurricanes, etc.
- Physical assault, including rape, incest, molestation, domestic abuse and serious bodily harm
- Serious accidents, such as automobile or other high-impact scenarios
- Experiencing or witnessing horrific injury, carnage or fatalities
Other often overlooked potential sources of psychological trauma include:
- Adoption
- Falls or sports injuries
- Surgery, particularly emergency, and medical interventions especially in first 3 years of life
- Serious illness, especially when accompanied by very high fever
- Neurological disruption caused by experiences in the womb
- Birth trauma
- NICU after birth
- Hearing about violence to or sudden death of someone close
- An auto accident considered minor by adults
- The breakup of a significant relationship
- A humiliating or deeply disappointing experience
- Forced separation very early in life from the primary caregiver
- Chronic mis-attunement of a caregiver to a child’s attachment signals (“mal-attachment”)
- Moving, changing schools, or change in life circumstances
- Bullying
- Isolation/lack of healthy attachments
- Sudden loud noises for babies or young children
- Recurrent medical issues early in life for example: Ear infections, asthma, seizures, reflux, allergies
- Caregivers with insecure attachment styles of their own or unresolved baggage of their own
- Genetic predisposition
1. Is it possible for a biological child to have attachment challenges?
“Even in utero and after birth, for every moment of every day, our brain is processing the nonstop set of incoming signals from our senses. Sight, sound, touch, smell, taste—all of the raw sensory data that will result in these sensations enter the lower parts of the brain and begin a multistage process of being categorized, compared to previously stored patterns, and ultimately, if necessary, acted upon.”
Pre-genetic disposition may also impact a child’s emotional development and self-regulation ability, children who are genetically wired to be more anxious may possibly interpret facial expressions and body language in a negative manner.
According to Seigel and Hartzell, (2003) a parent’s own unresolved issues from their childhood may impact their ability to effectively respond in parenting, causing them to become frozen in their ability to adapt to their own role of caring for their children in a clear and consistent manner. This has the potential to have a generational effect in parenting. We genuinely believe that parents do the best that they can with what they have been given (through their childhood experiences). If parents do not know how to meet their children’s needs because they did not experience this, they need to be shown.
2. Is it ever too late to heal attachment challenges?
Neuroscience has revealed that brain plasticity is possible throughout life. This provides an opportunity to rewire the brain and the response to relationships.
Awareness is such a powerful tool and parents are generally eager to learn, it can be helpful to be shown by someone who has the knowledge either through professional training, research, or experience.
We can learn to re-wire the brain through pattern-repetitive behavior that will forms new connections (new blueprints in our brain). Parenting psycho-education is vital for helping parents learn to attune to their children’s needs, how to regulate them (mind and body) and how to form healthy attachment relationships that will serve as a resiliency factor throughout the lifespan.
Alvarado, (2008)
“when relationships hurt, we learn not to trust in relationships, whether at work, school or home.” we work with people to help change the blueprints that people carry with them to form new understanding about people and the world around us.”
This is a core belief for our therapists in our center and is the foundation of our work.
3. For Adults: How can I have attachment issues – my parents loved me?
Even if your parents loved you, they may not have been capable of meeting your needs.
As babies, when we reach out and no one reaches back, when we express needs and no one listens, we often give up. Or if our caregiver is present some of the time and neglectful or abusive at others we become confused and keep reaching, keep hoping someone will be there.
In this process, we decide things about ourselves, such as “I must be unlovable” or “something must be wrong with me.” We then begin a lifelong quest to either avoid real intimacy or to find it, but when it shows up, in our desperation, we often unconsciously push it away. This longing and/or dissatisfaction often leads to anxiety, depression, co-dependency, addictions, fear of intimacy, rigidity, and wanting to hurt or be hurt as well as a failure to thrive as adults.
4. For Adults: Is it too late to heal my attachment challenges?
The brain remains flexible throughout life, nonverbal communication retains the capacity to change. Studies in people over age ninety show us images of mature brains that continue to produce new neural pathways at a time when older pathways are dying.
The same experiential and social factors that profoundly shape the brain initially can also be instrumental in repairing the causes and symptoms of stress related disorders.
5. Additional Resources
Trauma is a sensory experience and it is an experience like no other, commonly marked by a state of terror and powerlessness. Individuals of all ages can experience trauma, including infants and children.
Even when we do not consciously recall our trauma experiences (because of our age or protective functions such as repression) our body holds the memory, as does our mind. Regardless of the level of perceived intensity of effect on an individual, treatment promotes resilience later in life.
Traumatizing events can take a serious emotional toll on those involved, even if the event did not cause physical damage.
TBRI® Trust Based Relational Intervention
Developed by Dr. Karyn Purvis and Dr. David Cross at the TCU Child Development Institute. It has been successfully used for children with a wide range of behavioral challenges for whom other interventions have failed. TBRI® consists of three sets of harmonious principles: Connecting, Empowering, and Correcting. It is a holistic approach that is attachment-centered and flexible for challenging behaviors.
Most children are treated through the traditional medical model—consisting of visits to a practitioner’s office, with caregivers playing a superficial role in the child’s treatment. TBRI® includes caregivers and may be more effective because treatment occurs in the child’s environment where challenges occur. Our center involves parents in the treatment to provide the parent with the necessary strategies to respond to the behavioral challenges. Relationship-based trauma can only be resolved through loving, stable relationships such as can be offered by nurturing caregivers.
Why doesn’t traditional discipline work with my child?
Children who have experienced relationship-based trauma or early childhood trauma due to medical interventions need to feel safe and secure in order to respond appropriately. Traditional discipline triggers the child’s fight or flight response and behaviors escalate rather than decrease.
How is TBRI® different?
Parents and caregivers learn to look for the causes behind the behavior and create a safe environment for the child based on those needs. The phrase “A Scary Child is a Scared Child” describes the cause frequently pushing the extreme behaviors seen in children with attachment and trauma challenges.
How will I learn to use TBRI® when I am already overwhelmed by my child’s needs?
Our therapists provide the support and education needed to implement this program in a strategic manner for your child’s needs. We understand change is hard and provide a team therapist approach to enable a successful implementation of this program for your family.
Will TBRI® work for older children and teens?
Regardless of their ages, all children and teens require the need to feel safe and secure with their caregivers. Providing nurturing support allows children to openly discuss their feelings with their parents resulting in a healthy relationship. Dysfunctional behaviors can create barriers that block the development of healthy relationships. Targeting the causes or feelings behind the behavior allows for healthy open conversation about those feelings.
Highly Sensitive Person/Child
The definition of a highly sensitive person is someone who experiences acute physical, mental, or emotional responses to stimuli. This can include external stimuli, like your surroundings and the people you’re with, or internal stimuli, like your own thoughts, emotions and realizations.
While everyone feels sensitive at times, and everyone reacts to stimuli to some degree, being a highly sensitive person means you experience a much greater response — so much so that it can seem overwhelming. Many highly sensitive people need to excuse themselves from high-stimulus environments, often having a “refuge” where they can be alone and “ground” their reactions.
Because of their need to spend time alone, highly sensitive people are often confused with introverts. The truth is that anyone can be highly sensitive, whether introverted, extroverted, or anywhere in between. (Courtesy of Dr. Elaine Aron)
High Sensitivity is a normal trait found in about 20% of the population. If you are wondering if you might be Highly Sensitive seeking a psychotherapist who is specially trained in working with this trait is the first step.
When a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) is compared to the rest of the population, they can easily look abnormal and misdiagnosed as having a disorder. A professional who is not trained in working with an HSP can add to their distress. Mistaking that is it must be HS (Highly Sensitive) or something different, when HS can actually co-occur with other significant challenges is a common issue. Seeking psychotherapy with a specially trained therapist is essential to the accurate evaluation and effective treatment. Our center has several highly trained therapists in working with Highly Sensitive Adults and Children. (Courtesy of Dr. Elaine Aron)
Are more females Highly Sensitive (HS) than males?
There are as many males as females born with HS. There will be differences due to gender, family, and culture and how their sensitivity has been viewed by them.
Is Introvert the same as Highly Sensitive?
About 70% of Highly Sensitive People (HSP) are introverts, so the two are sometimes considered associated. The 30% of HSP who are extraverted are a different flavor of sensitivity. They enjoy being in large groups of people and social events, but also require plenty of down time.
Children and High Sensitivity (HS) – what are the indications?
Since children cannot verbalize their feelings and what their behavior means. Are they shy? Afraid? Self-esteem? Over-stimulated? Too cautious? These traits are all applied to children who are HS. However, the trait can also be mistaken for a disorder. It can be mistaken as HS when there truly is a serious disorder that needs specialized treatment. The earlier the problem is treated the more successful the outcome. The trait can also co-occur with HS, which requires an evaluation by a specially trained child developmental professional in working with Highly Sensitive Children.
Brainspotting
Brainspotting is a powerful treatment method that works by identifying, processing and releasing core neurophysiological sources of emotional/body pain, trauma, dissociation and a variety of other challenging symptoms. Brainspotting is a simultaneous form of diagnosis and treatment, enhanced with Bilateral sound, which is deep, direct, and powerful yet focused and containing.
Brainspotting provides a tool, within a clinical relationship, to neurobiologically locate, focus, process, and release experiences and symptoms that are typically out of reach of the conscious mind and its cognitive and language capacity. Brainspotting works with the deep brain and the body through its direct access to the autonomic and limbic systems within the body’s central nervous system. Brainspotting is accordingly a physiological tool/treatment which has profound psychological, emotional, and physical consequences.
Brainspotting (BSP) makes use of the phenomenon that “where you look affects how you feel” by using relevant eye positions. This helps the therapist locate, focus, process, and release a wide range of emotionally and bodily-based conditions. BSP is also a brain-based tool to support the therapeutic relationship.
We believe BSP utilizes the ability of the brain and body to naturally scan and empower self-healing abilities. When a brainspot is stimulated, the deep brain appears to reflexively indicate to the therapist that the source of discomfort has been located. BSP is then utilized to find and strengthen our natural resources and resilience. It can be utilized with other modalities including play therapy and sandtray therapy.
Who does Brainspotting (BSP) work for?
Brainspotting is effective for a wide variety of emotional and somatic conditions. Brainspotting is particularly effective with trauma-based situations, helping to identify and heal underlying trauma that contributes to anxiety, depression and other behavioral conditions. It can also be used with performance and creativity enhancement. Brainspotting gives the therapist access to both brain and body processes. Its goal is to bypass the conscious, neocortical thinking to access the deeper, subcortical emotional and body-based parts of the brain.
Why choose Brainspotting (BSP)?
For those who have sought therapy before and did not find it helpful, BSP can be a different experience. Utilizing focus and precision of the eye position, the location of the issue with anxiety, trauma, and depression can be targeted and processed. This allows the brain to process from the bottom up and inside out, utilizing the brain’s natural healing ability. It can be a time efficient and effective modality for the many challenges encountered in today’s fast paced world.
Will Brainspotting help children?
Brainspotting with children can be very effective to process and target areas of the brain that hold the underlying issues that impact behaviors. Behaviors are the result of feelings that the child is not able to verbalize. Through the use of bio lateral music and play therapy children are able to target the underlying issue and process it using the brain’s self-healing power. Several of our play therapists have been specially trained to use Brainspotting with children and teens.
LENS Neurofeedback
Neurofeedback is direct training typically provided by health professionals such as psychologists, family therapists, and counselors. We observe the brain in action from moment to moment and that information is brought back to the person by way of the sensors.
Neurofeedback is also called EEG Biofeedback, because it is based on electrical brain activity, the electroencephalogram, or EEG. Neurofeedback is training in self-regulation. Self-regulation is a necessary part of optimal brain performance and function. Self-regulation training allows the nervous system to function better.
The LENS is a specific kind of Neurofeedback that operates much more rapidly than traditional Neurofeedback and has qualities that make it much easier to use with people who can’t sit still. With the LENS, the client doesn’t need to “do” anything, and there is nothing to learn. The typical session with the LENS lasts 3-4 minutes. This means that the LENS works well for people who either cannot or will not pay attention to a computer screen for longer time periods.
Additionally, the LENS works much faster than traditional Neurofeedback with the number of sessions ranging from as few as 1 to an overall average number of sessions of 20.
The LENS, or Low Energy Neurofeedback System, is a unique and effective form of neurotherapy that facilitates changes in people of all ages with a wide variety of presenting issues. As a result, it has the capacity to address numerous symptoms and deficits. It is remarkably effective, and over 85% of people who have used the LENS have benefitted significantly from it. Results can be seen quickly, often beginning within the first session, and are lasting. It may be utilized as the primary treatment approach, or as an adjunct to other therapies. Patients across the lifespan, from young children to older adults, have benefited from LENS.
The LENS works well with problems of the Central Nervous System, which can be numerous. These include symptoms of anxiety-depression spectrum, attention deficits, behavior disorders, various sleep disorders, headaches and migraines, PMS and emotional disturbances. It is also useful for organic brain conditions such as seizures, the autism spectrum, and cerebral palsy. These are all signs of Central Nervous System dysfunction which result in the body’s difficulty regulating itself.
What conditions can the LENS be helpful with?
Cognition – Problems sequencing, memory, providing and maintaining attention, concentration, clarity and organization.
Mood – Anger, sadness, explosiveness.
Motor – Lack of grace, problems of eye-hand coordination, balance, increased muscle tone (from spasticity) and tremor.
Motivation – Problems initiating tasks, shifting from one activity to another, and/or completing tasks.
Anxiety – Problems of anxiety system activity (too much uncomfortably-contained energy), persistent “anxiety”, restlessness, rumination, agitation, distractibility, difficulty breathing, palpitations, tremor exacerbation, and sleep interruption.
Reactivity – Hyper-reactivity, hypersensitivity, multiple chemical sensitivities.
Pain – Brain-generated pain (mismapping the origins and qualities of signals), and vascular pain.
Addictions/Dependencies – Lack of clarity about emotions and self-comforting, defensiveness, argumentativeness and cynicism.
Fatigue – Fatigue; or fatigue as a phenomenon secondary to the effort of trying to overcome the pain and/or the above impediment to functioning more easily.
Performance Optimization – Increases in functioning in the above areas in absence of any diagnosis.
The LENS works well with symptoms of Central Nervous Symptom dysfunction. These include symptoms of ADD, ADHD, Seizures and sub-clinical seizure activity, severely disruptive behavior disorders such as Conduct Disorder, Reactive Attachment and Bipolar Disorder, Autistic spectrum and pervasive developmental delay, Cerebral palsy, concussive injuries, PTSD, Acquired Brain Injury, and Birth Trauma.
The LENS works extremely well with the symptoms of Traumatic Brain Injury, no matter how long ago the incident occurred. The trauma can be from a physical blow, a concussive injury, a psychological incident (PTSD), or any other incident(s) which results in a decrease in cognitive ability. Many children have sleep problems that can be helped such as bed wetting, sleep walking, sleep talking, teeth grinding, nightmares, and night terrors. The LENS can also be helpful with many of the symptoms of adolescence including drug abuse, suicidal behavior, anxiety and depression. The LENS can also help in maintaining good brain function as people age.
Do the results of LENS last?
If the problem being addressed is one of brain dysregulation, then the answer is yes, and that covers a lot of ground. Neurofeedback involves learning by the brain and if that brings order out of disorder, the brain will continue to use its new capabilities, and thus reinforce them.
At times there are unknown issues such as early-stage degenerative disease, allergies, strong reactions to some foods or pollens, or spills and falls leading to bumps on the head. In these instances longer courses of the LENS may be needed. And it may also be that some direct medical help may be the best course of action. The LENS can’t do everything for everybody. But it can and has made a difference that other approaches have not provided, and in general, in a much shorter time. Matters are different when we are dealing with degenerative conditions like Parkinson’s or the dementias, or when we are working against continuing insults to the system, as may be the case in the autism spectrum. In such cases, the LENS sessions may need to be continued at some level over time. Allergic susceptibilities and food intolerances may make it more difficult to maintain the gains. Poor digestive function will pose a problem, as does poor nutrition. A child living in a toxic environment (in either the physical or the psychological sense) may have more difficulty retaining good function.
Is neurofeedback a cure?
In the case of organic brain disorders, it can only be a matter of getting the brain to function better rather than of curing the condition. When it comes to problems of dysregulation, we would say that there is not a disease to be cured. Where dysregulation is the problem, self-regulation may very well be the remedy. But again, the word cure would not apply.
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